The Four Agreements

By Don Miguel Ruiz

The four agreements are:

  • Be impeccable with your word
  • Don’t take anything personally
  • Don’t make assumptions
  • Always do your best

Those are all good enough. I have no objections to those agreements. The rest of the text around it didn’t add anything for me. Talk of “black magic”, societal expectations as a parasite, and the notion of 2 year olds as the ideal, free people didn’t sit well with me. It was fortunately very short. I listened to it over one session on the stairs and the following breakfast. I’m not sure that I would have made it through otherwise. It’s a book that I’ve heard referenced many times, so I wanted to see what it was about. I did. I don’t expect that I will come back to it.

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